Relationship Coaching

Relationship Coaching

coupleI work with a lot of people, many of whom are single, some are dating, and others are ready to start dating. They all have one thing in common; they are frustrated with their current relationship or lack of an intimate relationship. I do a lot of relationship coaching here in Tampa working with a wide variety of people, and while I have expertise in several areas, I have found that my practice is full of single men and women, all hoping to find that one special person to fit with them. One of the first focuses that come up is how they feel about themselves, what they understand about themselves and what they “ think” they want from someone else.  My relationship coaching helps people find peace with who they are, manage their expectations for themselves and of a future partner. A phrase they hear a lot from me is that we often seek a spouse who is gorgeous, smart witty, and who basically never makes mistakes. In fact, most of the people I talk to run away at the first sign of a conflict. Although they can’t see this trait in themselves, I am able to see relationship patterns. I work with my clients to help them move beyond their anxieties and find success and fulfillment in their interpersonal relationships.

Through relationship coaching we focus on finding a person to “make” a life with, rather than finding an ideal person whom will never measure up to expectations. Marrying well is about “making a life” with another healthy adult who shares similar values and goals for the future. For most of my clients this is a new concept, but one they are to embrace after they take the time to understand themselves and their needs. I help them along this journey and I am so rewarded by this work.

Benefits of a Relationship Coach

  • Work on a plan that works for you to find positive results
  • Help with getting your life back together after a life-changing event, i.e., a break-up or simply realizing you need to make a change but don’t know where to begin
  • Increase self-esteem
  • Discover your real self, and your passions
  • Attract more people that fit into your life